MY COLOURFUL LIFE

Gereja Khatolik Tanjung Morawa menjadi saksi pernikahan kami. Dihadapan Tuhan, Pastor, Orang tua, keluarga yang kami kasihi, tamu serta undangan, kami mengcapkan janji pernikahan untuk saling setia. Ketegangan sangat kelihatan di muka calon suamiku. Mungkin karena dia harus menjadi seorang kepala keluarga di rumah tangga kecil kami dengan aku "si keras kepala" yang menjadi istrinya. Wajahku penuh dengan senyum merekah. Bahagia sekali rasanya. Ketegangan rasanya sirna begitu saja. Tanggal 2 Agustus 2014,,, Sangkin bahagianya, sedikitpun aku tidak bisa memejamkan mata. Keluarga sudah ramai di rumah. Masakan2 pun sudah disiapkan untuk Sarapan pagi bersama dengan keluarga calon suamiku.  Dari jam 20.00 WIB, sudah di kamar mencoba untuk tidur. Benar2 gelisah rasanya, campur aduk perasaan. Ada Bahagia, ada takut, ada malu, ada semangat, ada perasaan gak sabar. Ya ampun, benar2 gak bersahabat mataku ini. Jam berganti jam pun berlalu, tepat jam 3 pagi kam...

First step,,,, It just need only 1 day more from the day I write this blog. On 3rd July, I will be your fiance. (smile happy and relieved) Actually, in batakness, there is no fiance thing. We call it Martumpol or Marhatasinamot. A little sad, My wedding step is different with generally step to wedding for batakness people. Why?? Because I will marry a catholic man. In catholic, there is no martumpol thing. But, my father insist to make a simple ceremony in woman party. Because,both of them, I mean my father and mother dream their only daughter to through that tradition like all batakness daughter. The second point is, In batak, if there is no martumpol or marhatasinamot before marriage, it elope in Bahasa"Kawin Lari". ILLEGAL. so strange actually, but it is tradition. We have our own step before marriage. There is many steps (I have written in my blog) but we just through some. The time is 17.51. I have to go now. Many things to be prepared. Wish me luck...

Oh my God, I never thought my life would be so happy. Never want more than all things You have done for me. I have all women in the world want to. The day is getting closer. The day to tie my life with his life. Making me more nervous. The day you propose me as your wife. The day you make sure everybody in that place that you will marry me. 3rd July will be our witness of love. In front our lovely parents, a vow to be husband and wife will be declared. Thankyou God, You choose him.